Sherry here in Northern Virginia where the weather can’t decide on a season
When I look back on my life I think of how much of it came down to chance meetings.
Meeting my husband is right up there. We both happened to be at the same place for a few hours. If not for that, we wouldn’t have met.
And then there is my chance meeting with Julie Hennrikus. We sat at the same table at the Malice Domestic banquet in 2005. I often think how different my life might have been if we’d been seated at different tables. My family was moving to the Boston area that summer. Julie, being Julie, told me I had to join the New England Chapter of Sisters in Crime (an organization I knew nothing about) and go to Crime Bake. That singular meeting opened up a whole new world to me and blossomed into so many friendships and opportunities. Maybe, eventually, I would have found Sisters in Crime on my own, but maybe not.
And that got me thinking about the difference between chance and coincidence.
One definition of chance in Merriam-Webster is: the assumed impersonal purposeless determiner of unaccountable happenings
Merriam-Webster defines coincidence as: the occurrence of events that happen at the same time by accident but seem to have some connection
Another dictionary said coincidence is: a remarkable concurrence of events or circumstances
So chance is more haphazard and coincidence is a bigger event with some connectedness.
I’ve heard many writing instructors say that your book shouldn’t have more than one coincidence in it – if any. Do a search of “coincidence in writing” and hundreds of articles pop up. I often call Barb Goffman, my independent editor and friend, to ask if she thinks this or that is too big of a coincidence. Sometimes the answer is yes (then the rewriting begins) and sometimes the answer is, “yes but if you did this, is won’t be a coincidence.”
I find it interesting that we accept coincidences in life but not fiction. I find it fascinating that chance plays such a huge role in our lives.
Readers: What role has chance played in your life? How do you feel about it in fiction?